Mom's Recovering Progress

Its been one month since my mom get SICK !!~!!.. Her recovering progress quite good.. As from she need two peoples to "papah" her.. now she trying to use walking stick so that she can walk by her own... At least now only one people needed to "papah" her to walk... She now can use her own energy to walk...

Hopefully her recovering progress havent reach the peak yet... its still still going up and up and up... mom.. add oil.. will be support you all the time...

Mom's Illing Day 2 - 4

28th - 30th June 2009

Mom was hospitalized about 4 days... her condition is getting worst day by day... The doctor finally told us is mild stroke on Day 3 of hospitalization... But still couldn't get the reason behind... He suggest us to refer to Brain Doctor but the fees will be quite expensive... Then my mom went to another blood test or body check.. Nurse said SODIUM too low and DOCTOR said due to the thyroid.. my mom has also high blood pressure....

On Day 4, my dad decide to send my mother home due to nothing can be done at hospital... So my dad ask one uncle to help my mom massage.. He know how to "urut" the "tapak kaki"... my dad decide to ask the uncle come to massage my mother everyday...

my mother totally cannot walk by herself without two people support, so we cannot send her to theraphy center.. hopefully with our support she can manage to walk again... uncle also teach us how to help mom massage and teach her how to walk... We have to very hardworking and motivate my mom to work hard.. dont get her lazy.. Motivation is very important...

My mom's mouth abit senget so her pronunciation doesn't sound well , left arm and hand totally no energy, left leg no energy to walk and her attitude/behaviour a little bit change...

I was so worry about my mother but need to cope with everyday working schedule.. I was very down that time... "makan tak lena" "tidur tak nyenyak"... I felt so hopeless and useless.. Luckily my daddy is stronger than anyone of us... He really got many experience and can make decision fast... Mother with my dad by her side, really happy...

Beside her appertize also change already... the first day arrive home, she always said that mug got hospital smell, that towel got hospital smell.. plus she doesn't like to eat fish.. she said when she hospitalize.. the meal with fish doesn't taste good.. now she totally reject FISH...

Now she like very childish and really want to stick with my dad all the time... holding his hand while sleeping coz she said she scare dad will run away.. leaving her behind due to her health problem....

I really need to be strong to cope all these emotional challenges...

Mom's Illing Day 1

June 27th 2009

This day I dated my colleagues [AK, YWP, KGGG and sister] to K session at REDBOX... then follow by Transformer 2 movie... so my whole day activities were so packed.. Upon arrived at K room at about 11.30am.. my sister received dad's call about mom being hospitalised...

I'm about so excited with the 1st outing with my colleagues, suddenly I got this news.. Feel so dilemma, I'm in the midst of deciding to continue my outing or rush back home?? Called dad again on mom's condition.. and start to feel very worry... but mom's condition quite stable...

So I continue my all-day- activities with worries before heading back at about 8pm.. Beside dont wish my colleague to feel any worry.... I'm enjoyed the whole day even though worry about mom...

After the transformer, my sister and I rush back to Ipoh to visit my mom at hospital... wow.. damn geng lo my sister...about 2 hours arrive at KPJ hospital with the little viva 850 cc... Arrived at Hospital.. saw mom.. immediately I feel want to cry.. but but but.. I'm holding back..

Her condition really bad.. She need people to holding her while walking.. and she seems hardly recognise us.. Her mind quite blur... What happen??? my daddy said, in the mornng she saw my mom seems very hard to get up from the bed.. so he pushed her and when he touched her back, the pyjamas get wet.. and so do the bed.. my dad said she didn't notice also... she claimed that was sweat... Then my dad pour a cup of milo and get a slice of bread for her breakfast.. She even didn't notice all the thing fall on the floor..

Suspect something really not right, my father immediately send my mother to hospital... Arrive at hospital, doctor send her to blood test and brain scan...

So i very worry about my mother and decide to stay overnite with her at hospital.. this is my first time overnite at hospital... the room can occupied 10 patients and that night only 5 patients.. whole night I didn't sleep well.. How can sleep well in the hospital?? Once a while the nurse will dropby and do checking...

Day 1 .. my feeling - very worry about mommy and really wish the report can out faster.... afraid she is "lou yan chi oi" [old people tend to lost memory sickness]

Back to KL for a little REST

Back to hometown to take care my mother for about 11 days... really a busy life overthere... But happy coz my mommy is getting better one day by one day... Hopefully she able to walk again..

Will blog about my life during these 11 days at hometown.. coz I learn alots especially on cooking part.. hehehe...

thanks for all caring...