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Thursday, June 17, 2010

Soulmate / Life Partner !!

Never think of there will be a different between Soulmate and Life Partner !! until my friend explain it to me... Even when I'm asking around, most of people do tell me that "yup, its different"..

People said "Your soulmate not neccessary is your life partner" or "Your life partner not neccessary your soulmate" or "Your soulmate is your life partner"..
Confuse? I got little bit..

Soulmate - A person can understand you well, support you and there is something in common.. But mostly is mentally... A lots of things that you can share with... A person you feel comfortable with...

Life Partner - A person who is match your Marriage Criteria... example can provide what a family is in need i.e. financially stable, good husband/wife and etc... Of course this life partner and you do share something in common.. otherwise difficult to share the LIFE...

People said, the person that understand you the most is your soulmate but not neccessary will be your life partner... why so? Because if your soulmate is not your life partner, he/she is consider "outsider".. so mostly "outsider" will tend to see things differently and not too emotionally.. so when you share your matter with your soulmate, he/she tend to understand better and able to support or advice you...

This too lead to another question - "Your husband / wife is a good lover?" ... What is a criteria to be a good LOVER? [be right back for the next post]

This is one of the reason, even though you attached with someone either bf/gf or husband/wife, outside... you do have someone there for you... can we consider that is non-official / underground relationship? May be because those non-official relationship is without commitment or responsibility towards each other, that's why both can be more comfortable... just more on sharing the matter...

But definitely not everyone is like this.. just the minority.. So all of you out there.. Please re-consider yourself before pin-point at your partner this and that... Re-evaluate yourself whether you really do your best to suit your another half? Yup.. you may be good.. but not good enough for him/her...

Do look at yourself first before pointing at others... So are your current HIM/HER is your soulmate and life partner too?

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